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Finding Your Perfect Partner
The Myths That Keep us From Finding The Perfect Partner
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Love is a beautiful emotion, it is open and spontaneous-then why do we need to follow dictum rules for getting our dream partners?
Some of the misleading myths that keep us from finding our perfect partner:
- Work hard to have a great relationship: If you are bonded with your partner by deep love and trust, there is no need to work at having a rocking relationship. That which needs the support of work is not love, but a compromise of sorts. If you have persistent quarrels and disharmonies, then maybe you have chosen the wrong partner.
- Sacrifice and maintain the love quotient: Sacrifices and compromises are like trying to glue the broken pieces of a vase. If there are frequent want for sacrifice, then it is a subtle sign that the relation is slowly degrading, especially when it is a one sided sacrifice for the benefit of the other partner. True love calls for healthy compromises
from both partners.
- Trying to change partner’s behavior pattern: Change should come from within. Haven’t you heard the famous quote, which states – ‘our faults and wrong behavior irritate us the most, when we see it in others.’ If we are not content with the kind of person we seem to be attracting, then there is something wrong with us. We need to change ourselves
and then try to assess other people.
- Trying to find partner in the dream fantasy: Well, dreaming about your soul mate rescuing you from the bad guys or a flat tire, is just that, a dream. You ought to wake up, for it may never materialize. A middle-aged uncle or a good lady could replace the handsome hunk, in the case of a flat tire. Be grounded and practical. The more you live
in fantasy, the more it will affect your real world that is full of ordinary and boring people.
- And they lived happily till the last breath of their life: This is certainly dream stuff, no couple could live constantly happy or vice versa. For a balanced relationship, there must be occasional quarrels, upsets and patch ups, it adds to the real spice of life. Imagine how boring it would be, if the couple always smiled and loved each other
from morning till night? Happy ever after – that should have a unique meaning to it, other than the typical storybook ending.
- Your need for a special someone to make you really happy: Happiness is an emotion that happens within you, it is you who make yourself happy or sad. If you are unhappy with yourself, believe me, no other person can make you feel good. Maybe for sometime he/she could be a comfort to your sore heart, but after sometime everything will bounce back
to the same melancholy feeling. Try to be happy and contended with your own self, the world could have their turn later.
Life is a mirror; it shows us the picture that we form, not that which we want to see. It is important to treat and conduct ourselves with respect, dignity, love and confidence. And you will be surprised to find the world indulging you the same way.
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